230: How You Show Up With Others: Enneagram Stances (Enneagram Series Part 3)


How does your Enneagram type impact how you move in the world? In this episode, we’ll explore the three Enneagram stances and what they mean for you.


We’ll talk about:

  • The Forward, Toward, and Away stances, and which Enneagram types tend to fall under each of these
  • How you can learn to embrace all three stances as you live from your whole self
  • The healthy and adaptive ways that each of these stances play out
  • How our Needs and Values impact how we move in the world through our stances


We all have a stance that comes most naturally to us, but part of our growth is learning to lean into all three. This episode will help you explore how you tend to show up, and extend an invitation to choose to show up as your healthiest, most authentic self.


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Typology Podcast, with Ian Cron and Dr. Jerome Wagner: How Can Enneagram Stances Help You Move Through the World?

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